Defined By God’s Love

Love is the greatest hallmark of God’s relationship to us, and it is how we are called to respond to Him and to those around us. But, it is so easy to slip outside of simply being loved by Him. So, I am trying harder to allow myself to be defined by God’s love.

Billy Graham referred to the Bible as a love letter from God to us. I find that an apt description. The cross is the ultimate demonstration of God’s love. From beginning to the end, the scriptures reveal the coming of Jesus–the greatest gift God could give.

Defined First By God’s Love

Having accepted the gift of salvation, it is my sincere desire to be used by God. I pray and try to understand the best way toward that purpose. But, I was recently reminded that, as His child, I am defined first by God’s love.

I believe it is appropriate to want to help God accomplish His work on the earth. It reminds me of my daughters–they like to help prepare our meals. They will tend the pot, chop the vegetables, and typically jump at any task I’ll let them do.

This is a good attitude to adopt. We should be ready to serve in whatever way we are called. But, it is worth remembering, you have never been–nor will you ever be–defined by your own actions.

We are not defined by our transgressions. Nor are we defined by our righteous deeds. There is only one who can declare the precious value of your life. He spoke before we ever drew breath.

Struggling to Accept God’s Love

Still, I found myself struggling to accept God’s love, yesterday. My daughters went back to their mom’s house, and they will not return until the next week. My selfish choices from the past echo in the present.

I divorced their mom because I was unhappy. I ended my first marriage because I’d found someone I wanted more. My kids have to walk a more difficult path because of that choice.

It’s hard to look back at that version of Karl. It’s not like I can go back and change anything. And, as my return to Christ was a direct result of the season that followed, I’m not sure that I would.

But, it is overwhelming. God sees who I am. He knows what I have done. And, He still loves me. That’s hard to accept in the moments when I struggle to love myself.

I am working to stop trying to do, and instead allow myself to simply be loved by Him. Have you taken a minute today to just rest in the splendor of His love?

Prayer for Today

My prayer for today is that I would slow down and allow myself to abide in His love for me. His affection and devotion, the regard and comfort He has shown me–these are the things which I want to fill my mind.

I am resolved to continue seeking ways to be of serve God. But, I will not allow the things I do to define me.

Scriptures on God’s Love

“but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8 (ESV)

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” John 3:16-17 (ESV)

“See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him.” 1 John 3:1 (ESV)

“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death.” Romans 8:1-2 (ESV)